Weddings in Kukes start usually on Thursday, while nowadays largely remained Sunday, as the whole country. On Thursday, that made the bride, lead the girls clothes closet, as well as other equipment. In addition, the bridegroom's family sends some parents of the bride gifts. Earlier routed wool socks made by hand, while now sent shirts. For those that send clothes to the bride's house, there arises a lunch with all the benefits.
At dinner, go congratulates Thursday neighbors, and to make a game Saturday traditional cups. Hiding a ring in 10 cups and cups baking pan with these two teams were passing through the rooms. Whoever finds the ring, gets points. It's a game that goes up to 51 points and whoever wins 3 consecutive nights promode stand up and sing, and with humor jokes bullied party lost the game. Not missing the "mot serious" eg
"Not meni (rested) dog words, give a m ... the teeth". These were used as humor, but also with sparks conversation. Then, save the game, sing some songs, stories and legends are shown. Meanwhile, outside can develop other games, like horse racing, or headscarf game where all shoot the groom, if he dares to enter the game. In addition, promode if the groom does not sit observers but comes into play, tease worse, even can seriously talk or strike.
Once these three days, usually Sunday 11th wedding own choice, went to horses, with an older and wiser in charge, went to get the bride. There debates and harassment occur between sayings ambiguous, the expected jumping between wedding promode line. So among these elected a chairman of the wedding line. Group wants to meet first with the uncle of the bride and seek to recognize uncle. Uncle according to tradition, has the right to demand a ransom promode from the responsibility of the groom wedding line. Previously pushed to 2 Napoleons. This was justified because uncle named as rifles, so protect children and their honor, and since has taken this serious venture, belongs to the reward. If intermarry not respond amount requested, here switches the conversation: or to be "given uncle the money that requires or daughter does not ride the horse. If there is not understood intermarry, added taxes. Two Napoleone become four. It now has "softened" somewhat, but still called special uncle, as regulated friends and that day is the day of her uncle. As the end-laws forced to pay. Case occurred when intermarry not have known for uncle uncle of the groom, the person who has taken the initiative to challenge the word uncle, requires promode the money to him. And then there are such cases eg when Uncle requires 100 thousand ALL and hand it counts and says: "I need 90 thousand that were supposedly not outdated (subtext that'm not fined)". While 10 thousand leks that holds, says it gets t 'lo give niece. Now is softened this tradition that until 20 years ago, nobody can play with uncle. Once it ended, the bride ride horse, and now the car.
After coming, left an hour to rest. It just enters the door give a cup of honey and three fingers painted railing to go home sweet life. I throw candy, wheat and rice at the door. When the bride enters give lap a little promode boy. This is so that it make the guy and increase children with both parents. Earlier bride did not leave even the rest. Village girls put in the beginning of the area to see and begin to sing ei excited as much. If there are cases or voice misbehavior, or have heard that it was "outrageous, s'ësht worker or has any problem sing:
or strings that create promode the moment, some of the praise of some of revile. The bride, have more that day, but when the groom leaves to go to the bride's room then caught with. If the bride responds by changing physiognomy because of provocative songs, then swearing add more. Day comes the bride, the groom makes bath, cleaned promode and preserved dresses costume dark gray or black (previously used coating characteristic). promode Bridegroom sing, but not excited as with the bride. Him telling him sing verses not forget family, mother, promode father. The next day, the bridegroom promode is out of the game, mixed with partygoers, there is no activity.
Until 30 years ago in a village promode in Kukes, promode in Luma happened. The way the groom entered the room the first night of the bride is faster, too impetuous. But he closed the door slamming promode and all the power. This is because the groom is running adjacent to the bride, as his friends and shoot in the head, back who-who-strong lightweight. I shoot with potatoes, even with a pumpkin. Could be a bit of rotten pumpkin in any case good ... So bridegroom leaving high speed door opens and closes rapidly bride chamber. Meanwhile lamp or lamp fikej by collision of the gate. The groom to the bride that s
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